I’ve been working with Dr. Salemy since 2012, and after 13+ years in plastic surgery, I can promise you, I’ve seen and heard it all. Once my door is closed, sometimes my office turns into a little confessional, and your secrets and questions are safe with me. I’ve witnessed negotiations with partners, unique relationships, and my personal favorite? A comeback post-divorce—there’s nothing like a good glow-up revenge body or a mom wanting to get her confidence and groove back. Patients ask me all sorts of personal questions but the question that comes up the most (usually whispered like it’s a secret) is:
“Sooo… when can I have sex again?”
Here’s the scoop: for most surgeries, you need to wait at least two weeks or more before intimacy. But don’t get too excited, your body still has physical restrictions for a full six weeks. That means no pressure on surgical areas, no bouncing, and absolutely no testing your new “investment” just yet. The rule of thumb? Your partner has to do all the work. Yup, you heard me. You’ve invested a lot in your surgery, and to protect your new look, it’s important to take it slow. No need to risk any post-op complications, let your body heal and enjoy the results safely.
Another topic that comes up surprisingly often? Patients who don’t want their “caregivers” to know what procedure they’re having. I get it, privacy is important, and sometimes you want to keep your glow-up under wraps. But the answer is no, we can’t lie. We need to make sure you are well cared for, and legally, someone has to be with you for at least 24 hours after surgery. Your safety comes first, which is why your recovery sidekick needs to know the signs to watch for and how to keep you comfy and complication-free.
Now, let’s talk about recreational substances. I know, this is where some patients start squirming, thinking we are being nosy. But here’s the truth: we really just want you to be honest. Why? Because you’re going under anesthesia, and your safety is our top priority. Alcohol, marijuana, or any other recreational drugs can affect how anesthesia works in your body, changing how you respond, how you heal, and even how we manage your pain. So, spilling the tea isn’t about judgment; it’s about making sure you wake up safely and comfortably.
The decision to undergo plastic surgery is deeply personal and unique to each individual. It’s about aligning one’s external appearance with their internal sense of self. Whether it’s through a subtle enhancement or a more transformative procedure, our goal is to support patients through every step of their journey with empathy and expertise.
So if you’re wondering whether you can ask me something a little… personal? Please do. Chances are, I’ve already answered it three times today before lunch. Recovery isn’t just about incisions and swelling, it’s about getting back to life, and I’m here to make sure you feel comfortable (and maybe even a little entertained) every step of the way.
Thank you for reading! Always remember, confidence is your greatest accessory. Keep shining and continue supporting the best version of yourself. You’ve got this!
